Being a good father is hard work, it demands not only attention to you kid, but also a whole set of behavioral traits on your part that will ultimately play a big role in your child behavior. Indeed, as a parent we are not only responsible for supporting our children, which is already a big burden, however, you may wish that was all there was to it, but it is not, as a parent then you have to educate your child on daily basis, I would say on a minute by minute basis, it is truly an extenuating job but if you decide to fail at it you will get a really wild child that will make all the hardships of parenting even more severe. Therefore, it truly pays to stay focused (for the rest of your life I might add) so that your kid grows to be one with a good child behavior, then you will enjoy the perks of being a good father.